Hi everyone! I’m just going to cut to the story straight... I live in London with my other half. We are renting our own flat. In 2016 i sent EEA EFM application to the home office but got rejected later on that year. So we were advised to wait longer, gather more evidence and try again.
About a month ago, home office workers came to our address early in the morning and interviewed me and my boyfriend in separate rooms. I can’t say the interviews went well, but basically at the end they told me i have to sing at the reporting centre in Hounslow Eaton House once every 4 weeks and they left.
Today was the second time i went to sign and when i got there the lady told me i have an interview today and that i need to sit down and wait. I wasn’t aware of this because nobody told me until i got there so i was very nervous that they might take me. The lady came out and called my name then she took me to some small interview room and started asking me questions. She asked thing like: When did you come to uk? Why did you come here? What did you apply for when you came? etc. That didn’t concern me but then she started asking me “who do you have back in your home country?” i said my mum. She’s the only person i have back home. She lives with other people because she doesn’t have a place of her own and it’s very difficult for her back there and it is difficult for me to be here knowing how much she’s going through. But the question that worries me is when she asked me “if something happens to your mum would you go back?” i mean, i’m still confused about this question because i don’t know how and why someone would just ask me that. I said if something bad happened, in one way or another i’ll get to her. She’s my mother” and i was being honest. Who wouldn’t do that for their mum? I’d walk all the way back for her if i had to. so when i told her that she said “yes i understand” and then at the end was like “so if the home office told you that you are going to be sent back you’d say no?” and said “yes, i’d say no” and she then left to talk to her manager and came back 5 mins later with my next signing date and told me i can go home.
Now, all i can think about is that question. Can they use that against me in any way? The fact that i said that i’d go back if something bad happened to my mum. I’m just worried she didn’t understand it in a right way. I have nowhere to go . There isn’t back home for me anymore because this feels like my home now. I’m just really scared and want to understand why they would ask such questions?
please if anyone knows anything, please tell me. it would be very helpful
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