Please let me begin by saying how lovely it is of you people to be helping other people who might need your help who you could help and give advise to, Now I shall proceed to my quaries as they have been on my mind for quite some time, I'll do my best to provide you with all possible information that will help you understand my situation better;
I got married to my husband whos a british citizen on october of the year 2003, went on a Spouse Visa for one year only (I was lucky) and on the 20th of Jan. 2004 I got my ILR (20/01/04), now, 2.5 years down the line our marriage sadly took a turn towards self destruction, without getting into personal details, I dont see it getting sorted out between us, so the results will sooner or later be us having to get a divorce. We have now been seperated for just over a month, I am no longer in the UK due to needing some space and time to think, I went back to my family in my home country.
I would like to know how this will affect my ILR visa is there a chance it could be taken away from me? (I am considering to stay here for quite some time and I might go back to the uk in order not to lose my ILR [2 year rule]) is that possible to do? In the letter I got with my ILR visa its states that coming back after two years or more will only be authorized as return residency if the person can prove they mean to stay here, can you please clearify this for me?
Also I would like to know when my 3years in the UK start to count if I choose to go through the citizenship process
is it from the day I got my ILR
or 12 months after I got my ILR?
I have already been out of the UK for quite some time during the 1.5years I've had my ILR but def. not more than the required amount (which is 240 days and not more than 90 days in the 3rd year, correct?)
If I do decide to go back to the UK and continue with my citizenship process (3 year spouse) would I need my husband to do this with me?
How much attention and wieght do the HO put on the british spouse of the applicant? Do they need to be present at interviews? My husband wouldnt mind to be a part of it even if we are seperated, but would we have to lie and say that we are still happily married?
Also, If I got my ILR on the 20th of jan. 2004, what would be the earliest I could apply to citizenship?
Lastly I'd like to thank all of you upfront, this is very important for me as I am going through a hard time now, I have build a life for myself in the UK, made friends and went through some very hard times to adjust to my new home and now I feel as if im standing on shakey grounds, both because I am loosing my husband who was my whole world for the past 4 years (I'm only 21) and both because I now have to start all over and maybe even in a new country.
Thanks in advance for any advise, answer, tip or anythnig you might think would be useful in my case
