There is a facility for British citizens to sponsor spouses and family members for settlement in the United Kingdom
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In Italy, where I live, visas in these cases are mandatory and free in case of husband/wife, minor children and family members being supported by the EEA national. Howerver, it is only automatic in the case of the two former.
There's a heap of a difference between a free visa and a visa that costs £500. There's a heap of a difference between a mandatory visa and a discretional one. There's a heap of a difference between producing a marriage/birth certificate to prove a family relationship and having to provide telephone bills, tenency agreeements, light bills, photographs and so on to prove this. Before our marriage we always telephoned using international cards, rechargeable mobiles or MSN and Skype. the tenency agreement is in my name, the bills are in the name of the landlady and photographs there are few. If tomorrow I had to produce any of the latter documents to prove I am actually married to my wife, I'd be hard pressed to do so, yet we are happily married and settled with no desire to settle in the UK, but only to go there now and then, as provided for by Directive 2004/38/EC.
In the new EEA FP form my wife would need to state the dates of birth of her parents. Asked if she knew them, she said she was not sure of the year her father was born. As he is now dead and she is not in Russia, it might prove hard to obtain that information. Oh mine, how negative this ommission would be.
As for the petition, the British Embassy in Rome has apparently forwarded the copy I sent them to the FCO. Good. Let them see at least someone is not taking it sitting down. If all continues this way I shall be sending my complaint to the European Commission on 3 December.