I'm here again with a problem, I hope someone can help me.
I have a UK family permit NOT a residence card which starts this october, me and my partner will move to Scotland but we want to visit some countries for 1/2 weeks before start living there.
I was today in 4 consulates in Sydney trying to ask what documents they need in order to get the Schengen visa and the answer was that I have to pay, to show insurance of 30,000 euros, invitation letter, travel plan, etc.
The dutch consulate told me that I needed to be married in order to get the visa free. The germany consulate said I need to show a travel plan, and each said different things.
They asked me which country will be the longest stay I said we dont know, we want to be 1 day in Berlin and another day in Warsow , another in Rome , etc, they said NO you have to know which is it.
I dont know if registered relationship is also treated as family member? I show them my UK family permit and said I didnt marry but the answer was NO

I really dont know how to deal with them as they dont know much about this topic. I have 4 week left to travel to the UK , and normally the Schengen visa takes 3 weeks? I am scared we wont have our passports on time?
I would like any advise as I am new applying for this visa, Can be enough having the UK permit?
I have found this:
Question no 2: Does the visa applicant fall under the definition of “family memberâ€