desperate for advice, overstayed trying to go home..

[adelaidenm91]

hello all,
i am married to a englishman, i come a visit several times a year.. ive not moved here because i have a child from a previous marriage and it wouldn't be right to uproot her life and take her from her family so we have been long distance since the start of our relationship, (we have been married 3 yrs) come and visit when i can for a couple of weeks.
We found out we were expecting a child of our own and we made plans for him to move to america and end the long distance, my husband has aspergers syndrome and needs a lot of help. Usually his aunt would help him but after a falling out she no longer does. (both his parents are deceased, no siblings.)
So I came for the last visit to help him get his affairs in order, file the right paperwork, get his passport and
start the process to sell the house.
during this time we ran into extreme financial trouble as lots of issues ate my savings, such as repairing a gas leak, paying for someone to take the floor up to fix it and etc, private prenatal check ups, broken heating and hot water had to be urgently fixed, a lot of things went wrong that typically his aunt would have helped with but she didn't,while also paying rent for my place back home.. i cant work over here and he doesn't work due to is ASD.
time to go home came and i struggled to save up, i finally had the money and then no airline would allow me to board because i was too far a long for their policy, and the length of the flight, even with my fit to fly letter from my doctor so I had to wait until i had my baby to leave, thus causing me to slightly overstay, which i fully realise is stupid and ruins chances of visiting again. my baby is born now and i just want to go home! do i have to worry about the us embassy deporting me? i ask because to go home i need my daughter passport and social security as well as register her birth and it is done at the embassy, so im worried when i go they will deport me and my baby and i will be separated. Im a us national (born there, family are all american as well) going to the us embassy. Do i have to worry about that? advice needed. just wanna go home.

[CR001]

It isn't the US embassy that could deport you, it is the UK authorities that can.

Also, did you pay the costs of your pre-natal, birth and anti-natal care if you used the NHS? You are not entitled to free NHS use and should have paid 150% of the cost.