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by dazzle » Sat Feb 24, 2018 1:50 pm
Hi all,
Hoping for some advice please.
A bit of background... My stepdaughter has been raised by her grandparents in Cameroon for a few years. I am BC and my wife has ILR. The biological father has not been seen since pregnancy and isn't on the birth certificate. We have been making all decisions for upbringing and providing finances etc. My wife tried to get sole custody officially in Cameroon but they said it wasn't possible or necessary in this case because there is no record of the Father.
The reason she isn't with us already is that we've been moving a lot with my work and it's been more stable with grandparents. We have now settled and bought our first home. The grandparents are retiring and moving to a remote location at the end of this year, so we planned to hopefully moved the child to the UK after this school year, in the Summer.
However something has happened which makes things more urgent. The child is in her mid-teens and is still "finding herself". In the last 18 months she has begun to realise that she is gay. Same-sex activity is illegal in Cameroon and a wiki search of lgbt in Cameroon is very concerning.
Yesterday she was expelled from her private school. She is a bright pupil and is only being excluded because of her sexuality. She was one of the only girls who were open about their feelings, and this has caused other curious girls to approach her. So the school and other parents feel that she is influencing other children into potential illegal activities.
EDIT: To our knowledge there has been no physical sexual activity, which I gather is the illegal part.
The family is now receiving threats from the other families.
So is it wise to mention this in a visa application?
She no longer has access to education in Cameroon and is being harassed because of her sexual orientation, which of course cannot be reported to the Police. So it does show how pressing the situation is.
However I also see it from the viewpoint of potentially being a criminal in Cameroon, despite what I as a Westerner may think/believe.
Any thoughts much appreciated.